3 Tips To Make You A Better Lover Tonight

So many people feel that the key to good sex lies in looks, lingerie, and other superficial visual aspects. While it is true that men are typically more visual than women when it comes to arousal, making sure to involve all the senses can help lead to a more steamy time in bed than the perfect body on a model.

Here are 3 real secrets to great lovemaking.

1) Foreplay All Day

While true for both sexes, this is especially true for women. When they feel loved and appreciated, it helps to unleash their inner Goddess in the bedroom. Taking time to do something sweet for them, such as the stereotypical flowers or helping around the house will fill her with feelings of love that can be felt in the bedroom. For men, try to find something that works for your man. Wearing that skirt he loves even though you hate it, or rubbing sore muscles after a long day of work are a couple of examples. Be creative in finding ways to show your partner they are important to you and you'll be amazed how this non-sexual act can really steam up the bedroom.

2) The 5 Senses

Play around with stimulating forgotten senses, and maybe even removing others. Undress each other slowly in the dark, with a focus on touch and not sight. Whisper sweet things during lovemaking, pillow talk does not have to be kinky to be steamy. For the experimental, blindfolds or even hands tied up can be very erotic. Vanilla is said to be the most sexually arousing smell for men, but play with a variety of scents to find your hot spots. Use these scents during foreplay, such as in massage lotions or sexy scented sheets. The use of flavored oils, strawberries, and whopped cream is nothing new, but the stickiness can be a turn off for many. Instead, enjoy the taste of each other. The taste of a kiss or the saltiness of skin can be very sexy and enjoyable, perhaps consider showering together so that you can then taste your partner's clean skin and get to know their personal "flavor."

3) Eye Contact

Many people close their eyes during love making, either from shyness or from being lost in the physical pleasure of the moment. Making and keeping eye contact can keep partners in the moment, and a smoldering stare shows your partner that you are enjoying what is happening and them specifically. Eye contact is a way to see what your partner is feeling and can help you both to enjoy all the aspects of love making together.

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7 Tips Your Teen Needs to Know About Love Before It Is Too Late

Have you ever wondered why so many people experience love life heartache on a regular basis? Most people seem to start out with good intentions but then many fall into the typical love life traps.

After over 25 years of empirical research with metaphysics, personality and compatibility assessment, and as a matchmaker and writing a book about soul mates, we've created the following tips to help you and your teens and adult children avoid all the most common love life traps.

Warning: Some of these tips may be entirely opposed to your love life dreams. We don't sugarcoat our findings because not doing so will help you more in the long run.

1) Avoid the trap of "you are my everything." Put yourself, your self-love, self-respect, and self-esteem first. You don't need someone else to be happy.

A tendency to look outside one's self for love exists when self-love, self-respect, and self-esteem are low. Unfortunately, there will never be enough to fill the void inside.

Weak self-love, needing love and attention like an insatiable drug habit, or never being comfortable with even temporary solitude are signs of being ill-prepared for, and lacking a necessary inner foundation for a healthy relationship. It's obvious, but it overlooked by so many people.

2) Don't try to force the circumstances of your love life. A strong will can help some areas of your life, such as career and health, but it can backfire with your love life. Know what works for you and what you want, then go with the flow. Too many New Age and self-help authors claim that you can create whatever you want, when you want, in your love life if you follow their advice. Based on our findings, we believe that everyone does have free will, but only within the confines of your individual fate and karma. This means you can make the most of your life, but that one of life's realities is that you can't always have exactly what you want, when you want it.

3) Be cautious about safe-sex and birth control 100% of the time, even when you're in love. Love or lust doesn't protect you from unwanted pregnancies or STDs. Respect yourself and your future by practicing safe sex and using two forms of birth control every time, even if you think you know the person you're dating very well. If they're not okay with this, they're probably not right for you.

4) Realize that marriage or commitment will not guarantee happiness or improve a relationship. Many divorced people will admit that the high expectations of traditional marriage can do the opposite.

5) Consider if a traditional marriage or marriage-like relationship is best for you. One size does not fit all; the traditional model encourages conforming to rules and customs which may not be right for you.

6) Consider the importance of a prenup, even if you and, or your partner don't have many assets. Over half of all marriages end in divorce, with many couples fighting in court about money. You don't know just what you'll be worth 20 years from now or exactly how your partner will react if they feel their needs aren't being met.

7) Consider the idea of what we call a "child contract" in addition to or instead of a marriage contract. Unlike marriage, this puts the child first and financially protects the main caretaker before the child is born.

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The Disappearance of Mr Potential

So this is it. After all those dating nightmares you have experienced before, you finally met someone that actually has the potential to become more than a date. No matter whether you went out on a couple of dates with Mr. Potential or you had those extensive chatting sessions with him online, you have the feeling you at last found someone you click with. So during your last dinner or when he walked you home and gave you that good night kiss in front of your doorstep or during your last online chat, where everything went perfectly well and both of you can't wait to see/talk to each other again, You mutually agreed that you talk or see each other the next day and you go to bed with the biggest smile on your face.

The next day you are fully excited and can't wait that time is passing fast enough and stops right then when you are due to meet your new acquisition. And then the time comes closer, then the time is due and suddenly the time is overdue... And here is where this sneaky bastard, this queasy feeling starts to hit you, from the back with a bat.

You start telling yourself "Ok its only 1 hour, maybe he got stuck somewhere" but then 1 hour turn to 2 and then to 3 and then it turns into 24. Of course you don't want to rush into something and call or chase him because you don't want to cling to him as you have learned that men need their freedom, right? So you try to be patient and see what happens (this is not very easy if patience is not your best skill). And what do you see? NOTHING exactly nothing happens... this 24 hours turned already into 48 and you start wondering "WTF is going on?"

So this plan of being patient and strong is not really working out for you huh? So you give in, to a limit though, but you give in. You decide to sent him a message, an email or call him, anything to get in contact with him. Of course nothing noisy or annoying, just checking in on him, nothing else. OK done. So you know what happens next, right? Exactly NOTHING... And without any doubt you will be checking your mobile every 5 minutes, you will take it with you wherever you go just to be sure you don't miss his call, his message or his email, for the ones among us who actually own an Iphone or blackberry the email reconcile now button would by fully worn by now. And when you check your device, possibly the time span between the checking decreased to a minute or less, every time you just get more and more disappointed and this queasy feeling, this bastard with his bat is right behind you.

If you didn't start already earlier, this is the point where you go through every single minute of your last date. You try to remember things he said, you said and all the events and try to figure out whether there are any indicators that would explain his disappearance. Of course if you have an online-chat-thingy, you can just re-read the entire conservation, makes it easier at least for people with a bad memory or an early stage of Alzheimer. You wondering, whether the herbs of the dinner were stuck between your teeth, whether you had a bad breath during your kiss goodbye, whether you showed any "noisy woman behavior" that you were actually planning to repress till at least your 5th or 10th date. Yeah all of those might have happened and you had no clue. For those under you who do the online-dating-thingy you might have actually shared something that just turned him off, such like a boring story, a comic or a picture of your untoned, flabby belly. Yeah girl there you go... and you are seriously still wondering?

So you imagine but seriously you can't find anything that went wrong during your last contact with Mr. Potential, sure you weigh every word and interpret the worst into them, but if you are really honest to yourself there are no signs that he was planning to disappear, though he has seen that belly picture. And trusting your inner voice you know that you wouldn't have graded him to Mr. Potential if you had the faintest idea that he is a crook when it comes to women's hearts.

OK so nothing during your last "date" is probably the reason for his disappearance, so it must be something that happened after he left you. 72 hours past by now and you know that legally you could already report him missing with the police. Yeah, actually you could but you don't want to be the doofus at the police station reporting someone missing you have met, what... Three times? Especially not when the cops taking your report are smoking hot and making fun of you because you just don't want to admit to yourself that you suck and that he actually took his heels to get away from you. Nah you don't want to go through that, so you have to find an alternative without running after him and of course without him knowing that you care, just in case he really just dumped you.

Since you want to avoid the above contacting his family and friends is out of question, if you should know any of them anyway (common it were just a couple of dates). So what it is that made him disappear? And then it hits you, nah not the fellow with the bat, no a new sneaky bastard called fear.

Oh yeah babe, this little ugly friend has a lot of faces, be careful. So this tricky bastard gets into your mind so quickly and sweeps you off your feet that you don't even remember when he arrived. Fear stage one says that he probably found something out about you he didn't like and that made him furious and pushed him away from you. OK so you want to investigate this possibility and start stalking your own Facebook profile to check whether there is anything on there that could have been misunderstood, nothing fine. You move on to Twitter, Myspace, LinkedIn and start Googling yourself (wow you don't know that Google has all of that info on you huh?) yeah but still you can't find anything that would explain that he would stop talking to you. Right here fear phase two kicks in and girl believe me that's the worst. "Something must have happened to him" OMG now the scales fall from your eyes... HE IS DEAD. Yeah that's most probably the only realistic explanation for his disappearance... there is no other way he would not want to be with a smart, funny and beautiful lady like you (yeah even the belly you have can be sexy, ask the BBW fans). OK so he is dead, go figure... life, god, fate or whatever you believe in, is hating you, now since you might have found the perfect match, of course life cannot allow you to be with him, how come?

So at 96 hours and counting and after consulting your cold hearted friend and most probably your mother too, you finally hit the stage of despair. Your cold hearted friend, you must have one, everyone does, is looking at this whole scenario completely relaxed saying "nah... he is just busy, give him time, don't worry" and all this crab you don't want to hear. In contrary you mom is killing you with scenarios ranging from hospitals to death, which doesn't help either.

Yeah at this point right here is where you will linger for a while, it will take time to get him out your system girl and without knowing what actually happened this will take even longer. But rest assured that the day will come you will find out the truth, whether you will bump into him somewhere (and automatically know he was a crook and that you should really work on your senses) or whether you will be encountered by his ghost (which will not make you feel any better as you have lost the potential of having Mr. Potential). For those among you who have met Mr. Potential online and he lives, let's say 10000 miles away, most probably you wont find out the truth... so buck up and move on with your life! There should be more than one Mr. Potential out there, right?

Yeah, not very convincing huh? But at least try, it's the best you can do right now girl. Heads up!

How to Pick Up a Girl in a Bar Successfully

Going to the club or to a bar presents many ways for you to meet the opposite sex. You will find plenty of ladies who have different reasons why they are there. For college guys who are tight on their allowance, this is a good place for you to get girls for free. Well, this is actually the reason why I go to a bar or a club during those times in college when I want to meet someone and ultimately score.

But it's not every time that you are able to pick someone up before the night is over. Unfortunately, there are many guys who do not get that much luck at all. This is because picking a girl to ultimately score involves many factors. Each element must be put into consideration or most of them must be applied for a successful night. To increase your probabilities in scoring, tips on preparing and picking up a girl will be discussed here.

Hold on soldier, before you engage on the playing field, be sure to equip yourself first. Do not go bare-handed unless you want to get results. So here some stuff that you have to do first:

Prepare What You Need

a. Some Cash to Cover Expenses
Be sure to bring with you enough money for your pass and booze plus other charges that may occur during your escapade like a budget for a cab or gas for your car, motel accommodation if you do not have a place nearby, and for contingency purposes.

b. Rubber Coating for your Rod
Be sure to bring with you a rubber coating for your rod, do not ever go out without it. You will never know when it will come in handy. Luck comes unexpectedly any given time so never ever forget it. Besides, girls also want it that way. It's a safe way of making love.

c. Suit Up
Dress up accordingly. Okay, this is the part where you must take into consideration the kind of place where you are going to. Do not dress all hip with your large accessories or put up your boy band outfit if you are going somewhere that does not offer such theme. I suggest that you just put on your casual wear or semi-formal wear. That way, you will be neutral and your style will not just cater on some specific group's preference.

d. Invest on Yourself
You should invest in yourself especially the way you look or even smell. I am not saying that you should have a plastic surgery or anything like that. What I mean is get yourself a haircut, bathe yourself using scented oils like tree oil, apply a deodorant, put on a hair gel and some perfume.

e. Be Confident
Lastly, be confident or always believe in yourself. Being confident gives out a vibrant aura about you and it will definitely bring out the best in you. With it, you will be able to make the right moves and say the perfect lines. Basically, this part is the most important factor that you should have in order for you to proceed to the next part of this article, which is the actual pick up.

So you are now in the bar, you are all prepared but you don't know what to do. Let us now discuss the tips on how you start your epic night. Here are some tips on how to pick up a girl in a club without embarrassing yourself:

Tips on How to Pick Up a Girl

a. Sit Down or Hang Out in the Bar
Pick a strategic place in the bar where you can have a good view of most of its areas. This will enable you to acquire a prospective target and it will also allow the girl to easily spot you. Now this is the part where you get your radar working.

b. Assess the Situation
Once your radar picks up a girl, assess her first. Pay attention to how she moves or how she dresses. That would give you an idea if she is outgoing, shy, conservative or wild. A basic logic will do the trick or just let your instincts work on this one.

c. Keep the Eye Contact
Then while looking at her, she suddenly catches a glimpse of you. I don't know why this happens but it happens. People have the instinct of knowing when they are being watched. Well, let's stop wondering about that phenomenon and concentrate on the mission at hand. Okay, once she takes a look at you and she stares at you, keep your eye contact. When she smiles at you, gives a bottle's up or gives any positive gesture. That is a go. Approach her.

d. Talk the Talk
Start with a "Hi" or some cool phrase, and ask her name. If she asks yours too, that means she's interested. So fire away soldier. Remember to keep the conversation going smoothly. Do not monopolize the conversation though, most girls prefer a listener. Make your conversation two-way, like a question and answer between the two of you. You take turns in talking. Then try not to have a long pause in between your conversation, unless there is something physical going on. To get to the next level, try to get more personal and get your conversation to an intimate level.

e. Do the Touchy Stuff
Once, you reach the peak of your intimacy, start by getting a bit physical like sitting closely with her. Let your skin touch each other gradually. Let your arms touch each other until both of your shoulders get too close. Then follow it up by holding her hand or wrapping her with an arm. If you don't see any struggle or any negative reactions, that's a good sign.

f. Get Out of There
Keep the eye contact and the conversation going with some intimate physical contact. Then ask her if she wants to get out of there and check some other place or get to a place more quiet where you could talk and get to know more about each other, like your pad or some motel. If she agrees, your mission is accomplished!

There are many other techniques and factors involved aside from these basic ones. But we will get to an in-depth discussion about that later in our next articles. These methods may not work every time but it surely worked 75%-80% most of the time. Lastly, do not forget to put passion in everything that you do. Confidence, coupled with passion, will get you the reaction that you desire.

To successfully pick up a girl in a bar or in a club, remember the things that are needed for the preparation process. Then once you are at the bar, find a good place to sit down, establish eye contact, talk the talk, start touching and get out of there.

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Being in a Relationship With Someone Who Chooses You to Someone YOU Choose Makes a Big Difference

Although it might NOT be apparent, there is a big difference whether you go out with someone YOU have decided to go out with or with someone who has chosen you. The first usually happens when you are empowered to be yourself and feel safe with being alone. The second often occurs when you have a low self-esteem; are desperate to have a relationship and willing to go out with whoever shows interest in you.

Whether you choose your date or being chosen often makes a huge difference about the quality and "well-being" of the relationship which will develop. Choosing someone to develop a relationship with usually indicates your strength: You are selective; you judge and contemplate whether the two of you can click in terms of personality, age, profession, education and the like. You also count on your intuition and inner-voice: is this person someone with whom you can develop something meaningful?

On the other hand, if your tendency is to develop a relationship with whoever shows interest in you - and this has become a pattern of yours - it often indicates neediness, low self-esteem and fear of being alone. All these drive you to being willing to go out almost indiscriminately with whoever approaches you. You feel elated and flattered: someone wants you! And you begin already to fantasize how it'll be to have a new partner and what the future may hold for the two of you.

I've seen many singles that fit this description. If you are one of them you are likely to justify your "falling in love" by saying that "this person who asks me out is really wonderful"; or "I know we two have something special going on"; "it isn't for nothing that we've met", and so on and so forth, ignoring the fact that you've felt exactly the same about all previous partners you have had.

But the truth is: if you use such justifications - or similar ones - over and over again, always are willing to jump in with whoever asks you out, finding yourself unsatisfied in the relationship which evolves and eventually alone once again, it can mean only one thing: your eagerness, neediness and desperation to have a partner hurt and sabotage you.

In all likelihood you avoid thinking this way about yourself. You deny that this is what happens even if it has become a pattern with all your relationships. You prefer to justify the failure of the relationships by saying that "I had too much to give and my partner didn't know how to reciprocate"; or "My partner wasn't really available for a relationship"; and "It became clear that my partner didn't want to commit", and so on.

It is often easier to justify the failure of your relationships by stating such justifications rather than by honestly observing your relationships' patterns and acknowledge the fact that something in you, something in the way you let others choose you rather than your choosing them, sabotages your attempts at relationships.

As long as you will not be willing to be honest with yourself, get down to the root of what makes you jump into a relationship with whoever shows interest in you, it is likely that you will continue failing in your relationships over and over again.

The courage to look inwards and be honest with yourself is a key to resolving whatever issues stand in your way from developing a satisfying, healthy and successful intimacy.

Her Ten Biggest Pet Peeves

#1. They don't listen.

This has got to be the most annoying thing about boys not because they seem like they don't care, but because I have to repeat myself! However, the fact that you're spending time telling them something that they're not bothering to hear or remember is a MAJOR turnoff. Have some respect!

#2. Saying one thing, meaning another.

Plain and simple. Don't tell me you want to do something or you will do something and then not do it. I'd rather just do it myself. And on that note, why the hell can you not just make it clear that you don't want to do it?? Real women can hold their own, you have to earn your keep!

#3. Insecurities.

This goes back to confidence. If I'm with you, you're obviously not that bad. Being open about your feelings is one thing. Pointing out every little thing that's wrong with you on a countless basis is another. It's a mood killer! Are you trying to kill the mood? The only thing worse than being arrogant is being absolutely insecure.

#4. Arrogance.

Although arrogance can be hidden well, don't act like you're too good for the world. If you're so hot, then why don't you live on the sun? I want to know what you like, not what you're "good at".

#5. Stupidity.

Maybe it's just me, but i'm alright with the pretty and dumb thing. So what you're no good at math? At least you've got SOMETHING going for you. It's the stupid thing that really gets me. Ladies you'll know the difference... Stupid stories, stupid lies, stupid friends, you get where this is going.;)

#6. Personal space, please!

Everyone needs a little breathing room... Even you believe it or not! I'm not saying to go days without calling, we just want you to respect our personal space. Not to mention that things are more fun when I miss you a bit!;) Need I say more?

#7. One-word Text Messages

This one is pretty simple. It is almost scream-worthy annoying to get an answer like, "chicken", to the question, "What would you like for dinner tonight?". We sort of need to know... Do you mean that you would like to have; grilled chicken with vegetables, chicken Marsala, chicken Parmesan, yellow rice and chicken, chicken-fried-chicken, chicken n' dumplings, are you starting to get the hint? When we ask, "What time are we meeting tonight", and we don't know the other details, don't just say, "Seven.", Remember the whole, Who, What, When, Where, and Why thing? Yea, this is what they meant. You can be simple AND effective.

#8. Indecisiveness

There is nothing sexier than a man who knows what he wants. Know what you want, and go out and get it. And If it's me you want, "I don't know", just wont cut it when I ask you a question. Stay on your toes boys!

#9. Disrespect... To the general public.

This one goes without saying. Disrespect isn't cute. The simplest example is the guy who takes me out to an expensive dinner, and then shafts the waitstaff. Leaving a good tip is not only the right thing to do, it's also pretty sexy.

#10. Absence of attention

Don't ask me to hang out with you so that you can act like I'm not there. Why am I wasting my time? your best friend had his eye on me too, and honestly he's a little cuter!;)

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Talking To Women Is a Fundamental Skill That You Need to Have If You Are Single

There are certain fundamental skills that every single guy needs to have if he is going to be able to attract women and one of the most important ones that a guy should possess is the ability to talk to women. If you have a hard time making conversation with the ladies, then that is something that you should work on right away or else I'd have to say that you are always going to find the dating scene difficult to handle. Now, most guys do know that they need to be able to talk to women, what they really need help with is finding out how they can get decent at being able to do this.

I've had my fair share of awkward experiences where I was trying to make good conversation with a woman and it wound being anything but good conversation, so I know what it feels like when you are stumped for something clever to say. What I found that was impeding my ability to make good conversation was the pressure that I put on myself and I think that this is what ends up making it hard for most guys to make good conversation with women. When you look at what makes up a good conversation, one of the things that stands out is that it flows almost effortlessly. That is when it really feels fun to talk to someone and that is not going to happen when you are already putting a lot of pressure on yourself.

Since you do need to have the ability to talk to women if you are a single guy and you don't want to end up being some lonely guy who lives with a cat and hasn't dated in decades, what you are first going to have to do is to stop putting pressure on yourself before you even start the conversation. As long as you keep on putting that pressure on yourself, not only will it be very difficult for you to have a good conversation with a woman, it's also probably going to eventually lead to you feeling as though you would rather avoid that situation altogether.

Here is a little bit of advice on getting better at talking to women based on what has worked for me:

1) You don't need a pick up line, you just need an opener.

Most guys seem to think that they have to use a standard pick up line to start a conversation with a woman and you don't really need that at all. What you do need is an opener and that can be anything at all that you can think of to talk to a woman and get her to respond to you. "Hey" is a good opener, believe it or not. When you think that you have to possess the best pick up line in the world just to have any success at all with a woman, you are inevitably putting pressure on yourself and you don't need that.

2) You need to be able to make topical conversation.

You don't have to know everything that they talk about in gossip columns or anything like that, but you should be able to make some topical conversation. It may be "fluff" in a sense, but it is a good way to get started talking to someone you don't already know. You don't want to dig in with the deep stuff right away and the fluff can actually be good for laughs as well.

3) You should be able to make eye contact that feels natural.

It's hard for most guys to make eye contact with a woman when they know that they like her and they are trying to impress her. When they do, it usually comes across almost like they are staring at her and you want to avoid that as much as you can. Instead, you want any eye contact that you make with a woman to seem natural. Don't avoid it altogether, that's not good, just make sure that you don't come across like you are staring hard at her.

Ways To Make A Man Want You - How To Seduce Your Man

There is no better experience than to feel appreciated and loved. Women want to get a good amount of affection from the man they like. However, in some cases, the affection is only one-sided. If you are someone who has been struggling with one-sided love, it is time to turn things around. Make that man want you with these great tips.

First, you need to get the man to notice you. This is always the first step in seducing a man. Dress to impress however you need to make sure that the clothes are great yet still comfortable for you. You also need to go out of your comfort zone at times. If you did not like fixing your hair, then this is the time you give your hair a good amount of attention. Remember this. If you want a prince, you should first be a princess. You do not have to change a lot of things about you. You just need to improve yourself for the best. Ask your family or your friends to help you become a more gorgeous you.

Second, you need to acknowledge men. Some girls want to be liked however when a man tries to make a move, they tend to shut them out. This is not a good habit. You need to give the man a chance to court you and show you how attracted he is to you. You may be shy in front of men but that is not an excuse to shove them away. Just be you and everything will be fine. You also need to make a man feel that he is playing the masculine role. It is okay to appear independent but if a man offers a helping hand, do not bluntly reject it.

Third, you need to love yourself. You cannot expect other people to love if you cannot even love yourself. Be happy with who you are right now. This will give you a boost in confidence that will radiate through the people around you. Men like women who have high self-esteem. They tend to dislike women who always feel insecure. Do not be insecure. You do not have a reason to feel like that because every person in this world is unique and every person has his or her own special attributes. You just need to discover them and enhance them.

Fourth, make use of gestures and body language. Men do not like talking so much therefore they are keen when it comes to other people's gestures. You need to be aware of how your body moves as well as your eye contact with people. If you are interested in a man, you need to do eye contact with him. You can be aggressive by holding the gaze or you can show a little shyness by looking away once in a while. Men do not like women who are very stiff. If you like him, you need to show your interest to him by leaning forward when he talks or by looking at him honestly in the eyes.

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Help Your Teen Avoid Ruining Their Love Life: 7 Tips

We get many questions from young adults about love life dilemmas. So many of them fall into traps that could have been avoided with good guidance and advice. It leaves one wondering, "Didn't their parents or mentors help them distinguish love life fantasies from reality?"

Sadly, many parents still don't know the difference and as we explain below, it's an easy mistake to make.

The good news is that you can make enormous progress in your love life by altering your perception and taking a new approach which we hope to help you do with this information.

After over 25 years of empirical research involving relationships, spirituality, personality and compatibility assessment, including observing thousands of love relationships as a matchmaker and writing a book about soul mates, we've come to the following conclusions that will help you and your children avoid unnecessary and self-inflicted sorrow. Of course, sometimes kids won't take your advice and will need to experience mistakes first hand in order to learn, but at least you may plant a seed.

Parents, please help your teen and young adult children become aware of the following love life tips. You may save them a lot of grief. Note: some of this information may completely conflict with your love life hopes and dreams. Even if you disagree with some or many of these tips, we encourage you to consider them as you observe your and others' love lives. As harsh as some of them may sound, we're merely relaying our findings and we'd rather have you be aware of them to lower your risk of heartache or worse.

1) Most people have embraced as reality, thanks in part to nearly everyone around them doing the same, love life fairy-tales perpetuated by romantic songs, movies, and TV shows. Every so often a romantic fairy-tale occurs (and lasts) in real life, such as an unusually rewarding love connection, but it's certainly not the norm and it's best to remind yourself, especially when first smitten by a new love interest, that it is only one possible outcome. When you accept that each relationship is for a different reason, one that is not always obvious at first, it's easier to enjoy the individual fruits of each and you won't be disappointed due to unrealistic expectations.

2) Make your education and career your number one priority and follow your passions and talents when you're young. If you spend all your time and energy on a relationship, especially one that is rocky because you don't yet know yourself well or what works for you, you may regret it when you are 40 or 50 and struggling with your career and, or finances. For now, think of your love life as a side dish that compliments the rest of your life rather than the main course.

3) Avoid assuming someone is "the love of your life." You won't know who that is until the last day of your life.

4) Acknowledge the myth of the "one and only soul mate." Everyone has many, and most are not compatible enough for a harmonious, life-long relationship. Also, there's no such thing as a "twin soul" or your "other half." You are complete and whole on your own, even if you don't realize it yet.

5) Try to avoid putting pressure on yourself to be married by a certain age, or giving too much thought to missed opportunities or "the one who got away." It's an all too common trap to project dreams and fantasies onto someone you don't know or can't have and it may very well be that a relationship with that person wouldn't have been favorable for you anyway.

You have free will to pursue your love life goals, but trying to control the outcome too much will just add more stress to your already hectic everyday life. Our findings indicate that everyone meets who they are meant to meet, when they are meant to meet them, and it will last for as long as it's meant to, so try to relax and perceive each situation in a positive light, even when it doesn't turn out the way you had hoped.

6) Don't wait for the chemistry to magically appear. It's either there between two people, or it's not. If it's not or if it's a troubling connection, move on. Don't be afraid to be single; it's better than wasting time with someone who isn't good for you.

7) Don't hang on to a relationship that has ended or just wasn't meant to be. Accept that it's over, let go and move on or you'll block other, more compatible, future relationships.

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Where to Find Party Girls in Las Vegas

Las Vegas is loaded with hot beautiful party girls all looking for one night stands and a night of romance not thought possible except for in a movie. You can now look to make this are reality for them by finding the hottest and thorniest spots to capture that lovely girl for a night of lust and excitement.

The energy levels in Las Vegas are like no other you cannot help but get swept up in the excitement of enjoying a weekend with of high-powered nightlife and beautiful industry staff servicing your every need. Fortunately for the Vegas visitors you get to benefit by receiving top notch service, awesome amenities, killer nightclubs and a social vibe that wreaks of sexuality worn by almost everyone.

As Guy Groups and Las Vegas Bachelor Parties spend most of their time focused on hitting up the high-powered nightclubs for a night of fun. Although very rewarding at times it can be seriously expensive so I present alternative venues nd meeting spots to find party girls in Las Vegas.

Two hotspots you probably never gave much thought includes the Las Vegas Male reviews, Chippendales and Thunder From Down Under. What you say? Why would I as a guy head to these male reviews, well very simply they are loaded with hundreds of hot horny women.

No you do not need to enter the show or even buy a ticket here is the best part both Male Reviews have bars that are positioned at the entrance where women hang out before an after the show, mmmh, interesting right? Well, as an innocent by standard who happens to be walking by you notice a large group of women parading around thongs and garter belts seeking a male companion to entertain them, why not you! The funny thing is most guys are intimidated to enter these target rich environments mostly 100% females but what could be a better landing sport or launch pad for any bachelor party or group of guys looking to have some real fun!

limousines are basically nightclubs on wheels girls are cheap and do their best not to spend money except on themselves (massages, clothes, food, etc) or on you that is if you're a good lover. Party Buses and Stretch Hummers are awesome openers and ways to attract a large group of girls stranded in their heels on the strip.

So how is that you ask? Well if you guys are just having fun and happen to be on a rolling party bus loaded with liquor than a group of lovely women would like nothing more than a free ride and for you guys a chance to show off your cool fun vibe possibly wooing them into a nights stay back at your hotel. Everybody in Las Vegas seeks excitement and stories to go back home and tell their friends what could make for a better memory then hopping aboard a party bus loaded with bachelors down to get wasted and enjoy the night, its serendipity!

During the day or mid-afternoon times girls are swarming Las Vegas Pool Parties and malls these are the best areas to find large quantities of women who will not suspect you are on the prowl. But do not overlook the sidebars and drinking holes found along the strip as these places present a great opportunity for guys to meet a group of girls and party during the day! Popular locations include Wet Republic, Encore Beach Club, Carnival Court and Fashion Show Mall.

If you don't seek to venture outside of the Hotel then stay at your hotel and hit up the local drinking holes in the lobby. By far the best option for finding female friends hotel bars are usually comprised of guests staying over night or visitors seeking to enjoy the amenities you being one of them. Las Vegas Hotels have spent significant money to build a social setting comprised of restaurants, bars and clubs.

The Cosmopolitan Hotel has done the best job of offering alternative avenues for drinking and meeting people. The Chandelier Bar is a 3 level open aired lounge which sites adjancent to the Marquee Mega Club, restuarant row and more making it an ideal launching pad for meeting people. Other bars inside the trendy Comospolitan hotel include Vesper Bar, Bond and Queue Bar.

Dress up is key! Wear something loud, fun like your only interested in impressing yourself and you will attract passers-by commenting and wanting to be a part of your party experience. The more guys the better and this is guaranteed fun for anyone with or without women!

Now that you have found out a few secrets on how to where to meet Las Vegas Party Girls rest assure your next visit to Las Vegas will not be the same. I have tried and tested all the above theories all off which work and even better involve the group of guys you are with so everyone has fun in the process.

Just to recap the best places to meet women are at Pool Parties followed by Hotel Bars and finally Nightclubs!

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How Do You Know When a Woman Is Single? 3 Ways to Find Out

There are plenty of explanations for why a guy will feel like he is not really ready to approach a woman he thinks is good looking. One of the ones that I hear about all of the time is the question of whether or not the woman is actually single and available. That really is not that big of a deal, but for some guys, it is one of the reasons that they don't approach a woman they find attractive. So, how do you find out if she is single or not?

Here are 3 simple ways to find out if she is available or if she is with someone:

1) Just flat out ask her.

I'd hate to make it sound so simplified, but this is really the best way to find out. Some guys will think it is too bold to just flat out as a woman if she is single or not, but I don't find it to be that bold at all. All you are doing is letting her know that you are into her and that you want to make sure that she is not already involved with someone else. So, this really is the first suggestion that I would make if you want to be able to find out if a woman is single or not.

2) Ask her who she hang out with most of the time.

If she has a boyfriend, then chances are good that she is going to mention him as being one of the people that she spends her free time with. This is a good way for the man who is too shy to just flat out ask her if she is available to go about finding out. Of course, you may also get to find out who some of her friends are as well if you ask the question in this way.

3) Look for rings on her fingers.

Check out her hands to see if there is a wedding ring or an engagement ring. This will be a sure sign that she is not available if you do see one. The caveat to this is the fact that there are plenty of women who do go out without a ring and if she has a boyfriend but isn't married or engaged, then she may not have a ring on either.

Really, I'd have to say that if you really want to know if a woman is single, just go ahead and ask her. Don't be shy about this, there is no reason to feel like you need to hide the fact that you want to know.

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How to Deal With Dating Disappointments

Have you ever been disappointed before when it comes to dating? Of course you have, I think that we all have felt this way. Maybe it is because a relationship that you were in with a woman you really liked did not work out that well. Maybe it was because there was a woman you tried to pick up and she shot you down cold and it made you feel like you just did not want to have to deal with the single scene anymore. Whatever it was that led to you feeling disappointed by your experiences, you do have to find a way to deal with them. Men who don't find a way to deal with their disappointments in dating will usually find that it ends up haunting them and that is not a good thing.

No matter what, you are going to have to deal with situations that just don't work out the way that you want them to. You can't win over every woman that you want to and sometimes that is just something that you have to accept as being a fact of life. What you can do is to learn to deal with these things in a healthy way so that these disappointments actually make you stronger and leave you in a better position to attract women.

Here are some things that can help you to deal with disppointments that relate to your dating life:

1) Analyze the things that you may have done wrong so that it won't happen again.

Lessons are sometimes best learned when you actually have to experience them. Even though that can be a hard thing to do at times, it can be better to actually go through some things than it is to just read about them or hear about them. That way, you can really take a deeper look at what happened and what you can do the next time so that it does not happen again.

Here is an example of what I mean: You go out on a few dates with a woman and you know that you want to have many more dates with her. However, she seems to back off when you start to talk about things getting serious. That leaves you surprised. What did you do wrong? Well, depending on the woman, you may have been just moving things along too fast for her and that may be why she decided to back off. This is just one example of what I mean when I say that you sometimes have to experience things to really learn the lesson that you need to learn.

2) Decide that you are not going to let anything make you feel like you should give up on dating.

Even if things do not work out the way that you want them to, that does not mean that you should give up on the idea that you can succeed with dating or that you can't end up attracting the right woman for you later on. While it may be nice to experience success in things that we do right away, sometimes that is just not the way that it goes and that does not mean that you need to give up. Rebounding back from these kinds of situations gives you strength that you can use later on and that can be invaluable.

These are just a couple of tips that can help you out when you feel disappointed by the way that things work out when it comes to dating and relationships. You may also find that when things don't go the way that you want them to, that it is a sign that you may need to learn a little bit more about attraction and that can be a good thing to realize.

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How to Find a Mate This Year: Do Attend Live Singles Conferences

Finding a Quality Mate by Attending Live Conference and Weekend Workshops:

As a recognized dating expert one of the top questions I receive from single men and women who ask me ways for how to get a girlfriend or how to find a boyfriend, the most common singles dating question I receive is "How can I find a quality mate?" Modern contemporary men and women don't want to just meet other singles and date forever. Many of the unattached are looking to find quality marriage-minded guys and gals.

Where to Find a Quality Mate:
Many singles are successful business executives, men and women, with claims to success in their own right. With their business career success, typically these professional singles' schedules are quite full and busy. They don't have a lot of time to devote to sifting through the millions who have only posted an online dating profile or who have paid only $17.95 a month to belong to the internet matchmaking sites online for just 1 month. They need to focus and target their social and romantic time for greatest efficiency and optimal results of viable potential partners for them in their prospective dates.

The Question:What is a successful and busy single to do then for finding a quality mate?

The Answer: Attend a live Singles Conference.

Locating a Life Partner in the Facebook Age
Yes, even in the Age of Facebook, you can still find live Singles Workshops and Conferences if you invest the extra effort to find and locate them. With the preponderance of Facebook Dating, yes of course, there are online webinars to meet. However, you can only engage in minimal real interaction and connection with other singles that way. Plus you never really know if there is couple chemistry until the two of you meet live and in-person in the offline world.

Looking For Your Quality Partner Means Screening Out the Non-Serious Contenders:
Live Singles Conferences and Workshops are some of the best places to meet, mingle, and casually interact with other eligible, available, and looking quality professional singles like yourself. The Live Conferences are not full of the singles who are just hanging online at the Community Online Forums or Internet Chat Rooms while in their living room watching TV at the same time.

Make Finding a Quality Spouse a Top Priority in Life:
Instead, the high quality and high caliber people men and women who frequent Live Dating Workshops and Conferences are often setting aside their weekends to invest in attending the singles conferences and dating workshops. They have pre-selected themselves demonstrating their relationship readiness by doing so. They know to spiff up and dress to impress when they attend the singles dating workshops.

Dress to Impress to Attract and Attract Your Life Mate:
Nothing screams to me more, "I'm new at this and have no clue," than when men and women show up on a Saturday morning at a Singles Workshop in super casual schlump wear of ratty or baggy t-shirts, rumpled jeans, or their weekend lounge wear yoga exercise pants. When that is where you are, you are at Dating Ground Zero, and that is perfectly fine. However that just means you have further to travel before you are ready to get a boyfriend or get a girlfriend. You're not yet ready for a long term relationship.

Race Over to Live Singles Conference Right After Work:
However, the best business professionals who attend the Singles Conferences, Conventions, and Dating Workshops will often come over Friday night, straight from work. They might still be wearing their business garb and looking workday sharp. It's evocative of the Financial Business District Yuppie Bars filled with business executive singles after work on Friday evenings.

When you're single, ready and looking to find a quality mate, budget the time, money, and resources to attend a few of the live Singles Events. You will meet other high quality professionals looking for finding a quality mate like you, too. It is well worth your while!

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Relationships - What Is Loyalty?

Fidelity or loyalty refers to a form of commitment to another person that is devoted and steadfast. It is not easily broken. It means adhering to one's promises to another person for an entire lifetime. It means keeping one's commitments forever.

Loyalty is a loving quality, and while it is an easy concept to grasp, it is one that is very difficult to live up to for many people.

Loyalty does not depend on which way the wind blows. It does not depend upon circumstances.

If you are loyal to your partner and he or she is in a disfiguring accident, it does not allow for you to go and find someone better looking. If you are loyal to someone who is wealthy and successful but who goes broke due to unforeseen circumstances, it does not allow that you go looking for someone else who is better off.

Life may throw a lot of curves at you that may sorely test your loyalty. The law in some countries allows for the breaking of one's marriage vows if one's partner goes insane, but the most loyal don't end the relationship even at that point.

There is a myth going around that men don't value fidelity. However, according to an opinion poll that surveyed 1000 men, more than three quarters agreed that fidelity is more important to a good marriage than satisfying sexual relations or having children. Sociologist Philip Blumstein and Pepper Schwartz found in another landmark study that in a decade of marriage not even one in three men had cheated on his wife.

Every relationship rests on a foundation of trust. If it is built on lies, it can never stand. How can truth grow from such a seed?

Truthfulness in all respects is the first requirement for entering into a long-term relationship. Many religious traditions and moral codes hold that deceiving others with untruths is sinful.

Therefore, once you have made vows or promises of loyalty, you should never break them under any circumstances. To do so is unforgivable.

By committing such acts, not only can you hurt the person who believed in you, but you can harm yourself as well by becoming an unreliable person. This is the path to losing your self-esteem. Love and loyalty go hand-in-hand.

If you do commit an act of disloyalty, the most important thing to do is to make amends. Confess your error and ask for forgiveness, but more importantly, demonstrate that you will not commit such an error again.

Unless you're lucky enough to be in an extraordinarily sound relationship, after committing a serious act of disloyalty, the relationship is likely never to be the same again.

Far better is to be loyal and truthful in the first place.

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How Can I Get A Boyfriend? You May Be Too Ugly!

Yes, you read that title right. If you are constantly asking yourself, "how can I get a boyfriend?", you may be too ugly. When most women look in the mirror and not see themselves as a ten, they tend to fall into the trap of thinking they are ugly. This type of thinking can be devastating.

The first thing you must realize is that other people do not always see you the same way you see yourself. Yes, looks play an important part when it comes to attracting a man, but it is not the only factor. When you see yourself as ugly you start to feel ugly. When you feel ugly, your confidence goes way down and it affects what I call your total package score.

There are other things besides looks that make you attractive. It can be your sense of humor, the way you dress, your scent, your smile, your intelligence, even the way you walk. All your other characteristics and your looks make up your total package score.

Whatever you feel might be your good traits, you need to focus on those. Do whatever it takes to make you feel good. When you are feeling good you get more confidence, and confidence is sexy, very sexy.

So when I say too ugly, I mean ugly in your thinking. All women are beautiful in their own way. There IS a man out there for you. When you stop thinking ugly he will find you. The best part about it is, when you show your happy, beautiful, confident, and sexy self, you will attract the right guy that is perfect for you.

Do not try to be someone you are not, because you will end up attracting the wrong type of guy. So, what I am really trying to get across is, even though you may not see yourself as a ten, there is someone out there that does.

I know there is someone who has read this article and said to themselves:

I am not ugly, I feel beautiful, I feel confident, but I still do not have a boyfriend.

What do I do now?

Do not worry; even the confident beautiful girls sometimes have a problem getting a boyfriend. This has less to do with you and more to do with him. But regardless if you feel beautiful or ugly there are strategies you can use to attract the right guy.

Just visit my site below to see a video that will show you the dos and dont's of attracting a man.

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3 Obstacles You Need to Overcome If You Want to Attract a Girlfriend

There are plenty of times where you have to learn to overcome obstacles in your life to really get what you want most. If you are feeling as though what you want the most is to be able to attract a girlfriend and you are unsure of what it is exactly that seems to be holding you back, this article may help to clear things up a bit. There are plenty of reasons why men find it hard to do well with women, but if you are aware of what your obstacles are, then you have a pretty good chance of being able to turn things around and you might just find that attracting women is a little bit easier than you had assumed it would be.

Not all guys are going to be facing the same exact obstacles, so if you don't see what seems to be getting in your way in this article, that just means that you might have to take some time to see what specific things seem to get in your way time and time again. Most of us run the same patterns in our lives over and over again, so with a little bit of careful contemplation, you should be able to get a good idea of what it is that you need to overcome.

Here are 3 obstacles that I have seen seem to get in the way of a lot of men's attempt at success with women:

1) Shyness in the presence of women you like.

This is so common, it's usually the first thing that I look for when a guy says that he is having a hard time attracting women. And it even afflicts men who are usually not shy in other situations. So, there is no reason to feel weird about admitting the fact that you get shy when you are in the presence of women you like. As long as you know that this is an issue, you can find a way to get over it soon.

2) Lack of proper social skills.

Okay, so not many people are going to admit openly that they may not have the best set of social skills, but I do find that this is a common culprit. A lot of it has to do with the fact that men and women are different when they interact socially, so if you are a guy who is not used to having a lot of female friends, you may not have the best idea on how you need to behave when you do get around women. Luckily, this is another obstacle that is not really that hard to overcome as long as you know it is something that you need to work on.

3) Inability to take things to the next level.

This final issue is what sends most men into the friend zone and it is something that you are not going to be able to get over until you realize that what you want is a girlfriend and not a bunch of girl friends. It's easy to lose sight of that when you do have female friends, but none of them want to be anything more than just a friend.

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Why You Should Expand Your Horizons to Meet New Women

Quite often, guys will make the complaint that it is hard for them to meet women. I can see why some guys seem to think that way, but at the same time, all you have to do is look at some of the statistics on how many single women there are out there and you should see that there really are plenty of single women out there. If you are having a hard time meeting women, you might consider the possibility that what you really need to do is to expand your horizons so that you get a chance to socialize with women you normally would not cross paths with. Really, meeting women who are single is not that hard to do.

It's easy to get stuck in a pattern of doing the same things over and over again. Things like going to the same clubs and the same bars or doing the same routine with your guy friends are all going to make it seem more difficult to meet people than it really is or has to be. It's good to expand your horizons so that you can break free from those repetitive patterns and see what it really is like out there.

I was talking to a friend of mine recently who had the complaint about not being able to meet anyone and one of the first questions that I asked was, "what do you do on the weekend?" His response was that he went to this one bar where there weren't too many women his age that ever came into the place on Friday nights, and the rest of the weekend he pretty much lounged around his house and that was about it. I thought to myself, that is why you are feeling like it is hard to meet someone. It's because he was doing the same routine that did not work over and over again.

You can't do that.

No matter what, if you really want to see some success when it comes to dating and socializing, you have to be able to change up your patterns that are not really suiting you and you have to create new ones that are going to help you get what you want. A simple change that my friend could have and should have made was to decide to stop going to the same bar every Friday night because he already knew what was going to happen. He wasn't going to come into contact with any women that he wanted to date there, so all he had to do was to find another night spot to go to. Or, instead of lounging around his apartment on the weekend, he could go out and do more things that involve interacting with people.

If you are finding that it is hard to meet women, just remind yourself that there are plenty of single women out there. What you really should be thinking of is where can you go that you normally do not that will open up your possibilities for coming into contact with the kind of women that you want to date?

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