Quite often, guys will make the complaint that it is hard for them to meet women. I can see why some guys seem to think that way, but at the same time, all you have to do is look at some of the statistics on how many single women there are out there and you should see that there really are plenty of single women out there. If you are having a hard time meeting women, you might consider the possibility that what you really need to do is to expand your horizons so that you get a chance to socialize with women you normally would not cross paths with. Really, meeting women who are single is not that hard to do.
It's easy to get stuck in a pattern of doing the same things over and over again. Things like going to the same clubs and the same bars or doing the same routine with your guy friends are all going to make it seem more difficult to meet people than it really is or has to be. It's good to expand your horizons so that you can break free from those repetitive patterns and see what it really is like out there.
I was talking to a friend of mine recently who had the complaint about not being able to meet anyone and one of the first questions that I asked was, "what do you do on the weekend?" His response was that he went to this one bar where there weren't too many women his age that ever came into the place on Friday nights, and the rest of the weekend he pretty much lounged around his house and that was about it. I thought to myself, that is why you are feeling like it is hard to meet someone. It's because he was doing the same routine that did not work over and over again.
You can't do that.
No matter what, if you really want to see some success when it comes to dating and socializing, you have to be able to change up your patterns that are not really suiting you and you have to create new ones that are going to help you get what you want. A simple change that my friend could have and should have made was to decide to stop going to the same bar every Friday night because he already knew what was going to happen. He wasn't going to come into contact with any women that he wanted to date there, so all he had to do was to find another night spot to go to. Or, instead of lounging around his apartment on the weekend, he could go out and do more things that involve interacting with people.
If you are finding that it is hard to meet women, just remind yourself that there are plenty of single women out there. What you really should be thinking of is where can you go that you normally do not that will open up your possibilities for coming into contact with the kind of women that you want to date?
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