3 Obstacles You Need to Overcome If You Want to Attract a Girlfriend

There are plenty of times where you have to learn to overcome obstacles in your life to really get what you want most. If you are feeling as though what you want the most is to be able to attract a girlfriend and you are unsure of what it is exactly that seems to be holding you back, this article may help to clear things up a bit. There are plenty of reasons why men find it hard to do well with women, but if you are aware of what your obstacles are, then you have a pretty good chance of being able to turn things around and you might just find that attracting women is a little bit easier than you had assumed it would be.

Not all guys are going to be facing the same exact obstacles, so if you don't see what seems to be getting in your way in this article, that just means that you might have to take some time to see what specific things seem to get in your way time and time again. Most of us run the same patterns in our lives over and over again, so with a little bit of careful contemplation, you should be able to get a good idea of what it is that you need to overcome.

Here are 3 obstacles that I have seen seem to get in the way of a lot of men's attempt at success with women:

1) Shyness in the presence of women you like.

This is so common, it's usually the first thing that I look for when a guy says that he is having a hard time attracting women. And it even afflicts men who are usually not shy in other situations. So, there is no reason to feel weird about admitting the fact that you get shy when you are in the presence of women you like. As long as you know that this is an issue, you can find a way to get over it soon.

2) Lack of proper social skills.

Okay, so not many people are going to admit openly that they may not have the best set of social skills, but I do find that this is a common culprit. A lot of it has to do with the fact that men and women are different when they interact socially, so if you are a guy who is not used to having a lot of female friends, you may not have the best idea on how you need to behave when you do get around women. Luckily, this is another obstacle that is not really that hard to overcome as long as you know it is something that you need to work on.

3) Inability to take things to the next level.

This final issue is what sends most men into the friend zone and it is something that you are not going to be able to get over until you realize that what you want is a girlfriend and not a bunch of girl friends. It's easy to lose sight of that when you do have female friends, but none of them want to be anything more than just a friend.

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