There are plenty of explanations for why a guy will feel like he is not really ready to approach a woman he thinks is good looking. One of the ones that I hear about all of the time is the question of whether or not the woman is actually single and available. That really is not that big of a deal, but for some guys, it is one of the reasons that they don't approach a woman they find attractive. So, how do you find out if she is single or not?
Here are 3 simple ways to find out if she is available or if she is with someone:
1) Just flat out ask her.
I'd hate to make it sound so simplified, but this is really the best way to find out. Some guys will think it is too bold to just flat out as a woman if she is single or not, but I don't find it to be that bold at all. All you are doing is letting her know that you are into her and that you want to make sure that she is not already involved with someone else. So, this really is the first suggestion that I would make if you want to be able to find out if a woman is single or not.
2) Ask her who she hang out with most of the time.
If she has a boyfriend, then chances are good that she is going to mention him as being one of the people that she spends her free time with. This is a good way for the man who is too shy to just flat out ask her if she is available to go about finding out. Of course, you may also get to find out who some of her friends are as well if you ask the question in this way.
3) Look for rings on her fingers.
Check out her hands to see if there is a wedding ring or an engagement ring. This will be a sure sign that she is not available if you do see one. The caveat to this is the fact that there are plenty of women who do go out without a ring and if she has a boyfriend but isn't married or engaged, then she may not have a ring on either.
Really, I'd have to say that if you really want to know if a woman is single, just go ahead and ask her. Don't be shy about this, there is no reason to feel like you need to hide the fact that you want to know.
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